Don't Bite Your Tongue
 
Don't Roll Your Eyes
 

BOOK SUMMARY

Don't Bite Your Tongue is about parenting adult children. It counters the popular belief that parents must let go of their adult children and silence themselves. The book focuses on the continually lengthening period when both parents and their children are relatively healthy adults. Through the use of vignettes, it reduces the fire and increases the works in their relationships by encouraging dialogue between the two generations. Its self-reflection exercises, film lists, and bibliography can be used alone, in groups, or with adult children. This book provides a guide to navigate the ambiguities and ever-changing realities of the lives of parents and their adult children.

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Don't Roll Your Eyes: Making In-Laws
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By Dr. Ruth Nemzoff

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Dr. Ruth Nemzoff has four adult children and is a popular speaker on the topic of parenting adult children and family dynamics. She is a resident scholar at Brandeis University's Women's Studies Research Center.
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CHAPTER TITLES

Introduction: Don’t Roll Your Eyes: Making In-Laws into Family
Why We Make In-Laws into Outlaws
Where Do I Fit in? The In-Law Parents Speak
How Many People Did I Marry? The Adult Children Speak
Have I Been Displaced? The Siblings Speak
Dueling and Other In-Law Games: The Two (or More) Sets of In-Laws
In Love, but Not in Law: Unrelated “In-Laws”
Diversity Comes Home: Intermarriage
Whose Child Is This? Grandparents, Parents, and Grandchildren
More Money, More Problems, Less Money, Still Problems
Until Death Do Us Part: Prepare for Illness and Death
Do unto Your In-Laws